Ok. My parents are separated, and they don't speak to each other anymore. My father's family is planning a get-together, because my father's and one of my cousin's birthday is comming up. Their birthday is within a couple days of each other. I have a second cousin, who is my age. He has a girlfriend, and they treat me younger then him. We're both 19. Right now, I'm single searching for a girlfriend. I HATE not having a girlfriend, and it embarrasses me. They always do things at get-togethers, to upset me for not having a girlfriend. My brother has a girlfriend and so does my 2nd cousin, so it is always me that's seen without a girlfriend. I'm sick of it. I know they both are going to be there at the get-together with their girlfriends. Then I'll be there without a girlfriend, and everyone will be treating me like a 9 year old, because of it. I don't want to go. I deserve a girlfriend as much as they do. I will do anything to get out of going. I won't go and my dad isn't happy about it.I need ADVISE. I don't have a girlfriend, I depressed about it, and I have a bigger problem now. Advice?
That perfect girl will come, just be a little patient. Don't force yourself to get a girlfriend, it'll just end up terrible. I feel the same way in the aspect that you deserve to have a significant other, just don't let it get to you. Being single should be something to be happy about, you can look at any hot girl you want. If it really does bother you not to have someone, go and ask one of your girl buddies to be your girlfriend, if not, then get to know a girl you like at school and progressively get her to hang out and invite her to your family's get together. The more you let your family get to you about not having someone, the more they'll treat you like that. Just show them that you can take it, and then blast in the next get together with a hot broad that will blow them away.I need ADVISE. I don't have a girlfriend, I depressed about it, and I have a bigger problem now. Advice?
I know EXACTLY where you're coming from, because I don't have a girlfriend, and I HATE being unattached ! Having said that, I think you should go to the family get -- together ... at least make a token appearance . Tell your father you'll go, but you'll leave if anybody teases you about not having a girlfriend . As it stands now, you're hurting your father by refusing to attend, and that won't do any good ... I also have to add -- Cleverpuss1970 had a GREAT idea !!
I'm going to go with everyone else. If this is something you can't get out of (for real) then I would call up a few girls, tell them what is going on, and ask them to accompany you to the get together. A girlfriend doesn't have something of a romantic thing, it can always be casual (and many romantic relationships start up as casual.) Then at the party, you can talk about all the things you'd like to do together, and who knows, maybe it will lead to romance.
But you need to quit wallowing in self-pity about your lack of love life. It's not going to get you a girlfriend any time soon. Seriously, for real. If after the party, they still give you grief about not getting a girlfriend, you should log on to Dear Abby at http://www.dearabby.com and send her a message describing your problem. She gives really good advice and you can trust her.
Personally, I think your 2nd cousin and brother who have girlfriends are co-dependent, the type of person who needs to be constantly dating, and can't live without girlfriends because they don't know how to love themselves. It's the most pathetic thing I've ever heard. Were it me, I would've shrugged the teasing off, then e-mailed them a link of Chris Crocker's video on codependency, (I sent you the link in a private e-mail some weeks ago) telling them they need to take a good look at it and listen to the message behind it! AND YOU CAN TELL THEM THAT I THINK THEY ARE CODEPENDENT!!!!!!
Dude, not to get personal, but I'm worried about you, man. This is nothing to kill yourself over at all.
Well, you don't need a REAL girlfriend for this, you just need some friends who happen to be girls! Call all the girls you know up, (and have them call a few if you don't know many who will do this for you) and ask them ALL to go with you as your dates! Then you will have a group of girls all hanging on your arms, and you can say that you just couldn't choose! I'll just BET you will see pride shining in your dear old dad's eyes!
Might be a good idea to try approaching a girl and asking her if she would like to go with you.
How many cousings you got? damn you LAME!
wow that seems like a lot of pressure put on you! but you should ingnore them or go look for someone
your an adult.. u dont have to go if you dont want to..
So don't go. Take your dad out afterwords, another night to dinner or something.
Or go, hold your head up high, and shurg off the crap family gives you. If you don't let it bother you, then they won't keep doing it. They do it because it gets a rise out of you.
Do you have any female friends that you could ask to go with you, maybe explain to them what's going on with your family, and maybe one would be willing to help you out and go with you, so they can't say anything?
you need to be happy with yourself, and then girls will be more attracted to you
sitting here and wallowing in why you don't have one will NOT do anything. trust me. every girl wants a confident nice guy
being attractive is sometimes a good thing, but widely overrated.
good luck! i'm sure your perfect girl's out there =D
Monday, December 21, 2009
Can anyone advise me of a good company 2 book labia reduction with?and possible prices?any expereinces/advice?
I would really like to have surgery to have my labia reduced and i am not sure where/who to go with. I know there is harley street doctors and bupa do it but i just wanted some advice before i go ahead.
I am also not sure of prices?
thanksCan anyone advise me of a good company 2 book labia reduction with?and possible prices?any expereinces/advice?
Why would you want to mutilate your self, you realise no matter how skilled the surgeon, he can never reconnect the nerve endings so that you would not experience any pleasure by your partner caressing your labiaCan anyone advise me of a good company 2 book labia reduction with?and possible prices?any expereinces/advice?
I want the same thing, i think its around 拢2000, and they do it under local anastetic (sp) and the surgery itself is usually around 2 hours and you can go home the same day. Erm i think they do it with a laser now so theres no scarring but about places to go im not sure...you should ask your doctor or something they will be able to refer you to somebody.
I am also not sure of prices?
thanksCan anyone advise me of a good company 2 book labia reduction with?and possible prices?any expereinces/advice?
Why would you want to mutilate your self, you realise no matter how skilled the surgeon, he can never reconnect the nerve endings so that you would not experience any pleasure by your partner caressing your labiaCan anyone advise me of a good company 2 book labia reduction with?and possible prices?any expereinces/advice?
I want the same thing, i think its around 拢2000, and they do it under local anastetic (sp) and the surgery itself is usually around 2 hours and you can go home the same day. Erm i think they do it with a laser now so theres no scarring but about places to go im not sure...you should ask your doctor or something they will be able to refer you to somebody.
I was advised 'never look at a camera, and don't make faces' - does that advice still hold true?
The advisor was the TV director father of 2 famous screen actors, teaching a class at drama school.
I've just watched the Christmas 'Doctor Who', and thought Dervla Kirwan acted everybody else off the screen.I was advised 'never look at a camera, and don't make faces' - does that advice still hold true?
As a rule of thumb, never look into the camera unless told to do so. Facial expressions should only be done if the nature of the scene requires it.
While it may appear that some actors/actresses are looking into the camera, they are often looking just above the camera line, focusing on a point behind the camera.I was advised 'never look at a camera, and don't make faces' - does that advice still hold true?
well i agree with one of the answerer ( the actor one). don't look directly into the camera. just the focus point above the camera.
and what did you mean Dervla Kirwan acted every body else off the screen? Was that a criticism or compliment? Mind my ignorance.. :X
ever tried the hell of wedding photos without looking at the camera? Yes it was great and lovely but about halfway through the posed photos my smile became a painful grimace and it shows.
it depends when you go into an audition ask the casting director.
odds are she will have already told you who to act to, so it all depends!
Yes, especially in your case.
I've just watched the Christmas 'Doctor Who', and thought Dervla Kirwan acted everybody else off the screen.I was advised 'never look at a camera, and don't make faces' - does that advice still hold true?
As a rule of thumb, never look into the camera unless told to do so. Facial expressions should only be done if the nature of the scene requires it.
While it may appear that some actors/actresses are looking into the camera, they are often looking just above the camera line, focusing on a point behind the camera.I was advised 'never look at a camera, and don't make faces' - does that advice still hold true?
well i agree with one of the answerer ( the actor one). don't look directly into the camera. just the focus point above the camera.
and what did you mean Dervla Kirwan acted every body else off the screen? Was that a criticism or compliment? Mind my ignorance.. :X
ever tried the hell of wedding photos without looking at the camera? Yes it was great and lovely but about halfway through the posed photos my smile became a painful grimace and it shows.
it depends when you go into an audition ask the casting director.
odds are she will have already told you who to act to, so it all depends!
Yes, especially in your case.
Do you think the people you advise to';get a life';actually go out and get one as a result of your sage advice?
I don't give that particular piece of oh-so-caring advice; I will say, though, that the idea of someone answering a question on here with that advice is HILARIOUS considering. Nice crazy bit of irony, there, huh. Somebody sitting around all evening, answering random questions on a web site, telling someone to go out and get a life. Hah!Do you think the people you advise to';get a life';actually go out and get one as a result of your sage advice?
I never give THAT advice. Anyway, I guess most people feel offended when they get that and they react the opposite way. So, no. I don't think many of them go out and get a life, when somebody else tells them to do so.Do you think the people you advise to';get a life';actually go out and get one as a result of your sage advice?
Needy one...People who need to get a life are scum suckers. Live at home with parents, parasites %26amp; druggies. That's why some of them go to jail for 3 meals a day and a place to live.
Heck no, because when you see them in town a few weeks later, they're still doing the same stupid things they were doing before the sage suggestion.
Yes, because I'm just awesome like that.
Depends on the kind of person and what kind of day they're having.If its a really serious person and takes things serious and is having a bad day on top of that then yea they are probably are going to set goals for themselves meet those goals thus having a life.If its a generally happy person and they are having a good day then they are probably just going to brush it off and get on with their life if they have one.
Nope. Just psses them off.
buddy seriously . . .u need to get a life? . .why would you waste 2 minutes asking this question?. .obviously you dont have a life.
None that I know of, when these people are so self absorbed in their own incompetence, they couldn't hit water if they fell out of a boat.
yes they do been there done that then the other person tried to get into my life it was so amazing
Sounds like your a needyone.
if they did get one, it will be b'coz of the Holy Spirit has touched their hearts. I can't take credit for what God do through me
I never give THAT advice. Anyway, I guess most people feel offended when they get that and they react the opposite way. So, no. I don't think many of them go out and get a life, when somebody else tells them to do so.Do you think the people you advise to';get a life';actually go out and get one as a result of your sage advice?
Needy one...People who need to get a life are scum suckers. Live at home with parents, parasites %26amp; druggies. That's why some of them go to jail for 3 meals a day and a place to live.
Heck no, because when you see them in town a few weeks later, they're still doing the same stupid things they were doing before the sage suggestion.
Yes, because I'm just awesome like that.
Depends on the kind of person and what kind of day they're having.If its a really serious person and takes things serious and is having a bad day on top of that then yea they are probably are going to set goals for themselves meet those goals thus having a life.If its a generally happy person and they are having a good day then they are probably just going to brush it off and get on with their life if they have one.
Nope. Just psses them off.
buddy seriously . . .u need to get a life? . .why would you waste 2 minutes asking this question?. .obviously you dont have a life.
None that I know of, when these people are so self absorbed in their own incompetence, they couldn't hit water if they fell out of a boat.
yes they do been there done that then the other person tried to get into my life it was so amazing
Sounds like your a needyone.
if they did get one, it will be b'coz of the Holy Spirit has touched their hearts. I can't take credit for what God do through me
What is the diferrence between advice and advise?
advice is a noun.
advise is a verb.What is the diferrence between advice and advise?
advise is the action like talking 2some one about studies whileadvice is wat u take inWhat is the diferrence between advice and advise?
My advice to you is to ___________
The doctor will advise you to do this_________.
'Advice' is a noun whereas 'Advise' is a verb.
The teacher gave the right advice to the student.
The teacher advised the student to study hard.
“Advice” is the noun, “advise” the verb. When Ann Landers advises people, she gives them advice.
Advice is a noun. ie 'The advice that he gave me.....'
'My advice to you is....'
Advise is a verb. ie 'A counsellor is available to help and advise you....' 'I want you to advise me what I should do.... '
Advice is the same as a giving counsel about something. Recommending, giving opinion to some one
Advise is similar but not the same, is an opinion or recommendation offered as a guide to action.
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advise is a verb.What is the diferrence between advice and advise?
advise is the action like talking 2some one about studies whileadvice is wat u take inWhat is the diferrence between advice and advise?
My advice to you is to ___________
The doctor will advise you to do this_________.
'Advice' is a noun whereas 'Advise' is a verb.
The teacher gave the right advice to the student.
The teacher advised the student to study hard.
“Advice” is the noun, “advise” the verb. When Ann Landers advises people, she gives them advice.
Advice is a noun. ie 'The advice that he gave me.....'
'My advice to you is....'
Advise is a verb. ie 'A counsellor is available to help and advise you....' 'I want you to advise me what I should do.... '
Advice is the same as a giving counsel about something. Recommending, giving opinion to some one
Advise is similar but not the same, is an opinion or recommendation offered as a guide to action.
advice-noun
advise-adjective
What is diffrence between word ';Advise'; and ';Advice';?
AdviCe is what you give when someone asks for you to adviSe thenWhat is diffrence between word ';Advise'; and ';Advice';?
Advise is what you do
Advice is what you giveWhat is diffrence between word ';Advise'; and ';Advice';?
The first is the verb, and the second is the noun.
Advise is what you give or do, advice is what youget from others.
Advise is the verb. Advice is the noun.
I shall advise you to listen to my advice ,'never advise anybody if he/she doesn't ask your advice.'
Advise is an adjective, advice is a noun.
Advice is a noun, advise is a verb.
';I would advise you to listen to others advice';. See the difference? Advise is present tense, and advice is past tense.
They are said differently too, advise is pronounced 'advize', advice is pronounced 'advise' - it's complicated I know!
To advise is to give . Advice is what you are given
Advise is the verb and advice is the noun.
';I need some advice';
';Would you advise me please?';
In England, you advise (verb) by giving advice (noun). Similar instances are practise (verb) and practice (noun), although I think practise serves as both noun and verb in America. Also license and licence, which is why licenced to sell liquor is incorrect.
The phantom thumbs down numskull is about again - sorry two of 'em.
Say, Chew - look up numskull in the dictionary please and you'll find which of us is it.
to advise is a verb, like I could advise you on your love life, advice is the noun, like you could say 'she gave me advice on my love life'.
advise is information given out, the other is information taken in
Advice is something you give.
Advise is something you do
advise: is if someone asked you about a certain brand of something and you told tehm what you thought or if you had read something about it thenyou would 'advise' them of your knowledge of the product
advice: this is something that you give to someone if they need help with something for example if your friend needed to pick her mother up from the hospital at 3 pm but needed to be on a date at 10 minutes past, you could give her advice on how she could plan her time?
or if someone asked you a question adn had their own opinion on the answer they could give you advice about the answer maybe?
Advise is the act of giving someone advice.
I agree with Eddie but......Eddie, shut up mate. The answer you gave should finish at the first line because that's what the questioner wants. (Points off for verbiage) And I didn't give you the thumbs down, it looks like someone else has the same thoughts as I have.
I advise you to take my advice...
You advise someone by giving advice.
Advise - When you give someone advice
Advice - What you give someone ; help you give someone
more related..... Adviser - someone that gives advice or gives it professionally ; i hope you consider ME a good adviser : )
their is no difference
Advise is what you do
Advice is what you giveWhat is diffrence between word ';Advise'; and ';Advice';?
The first is the verb, and the second is the noun.
Advise is what you give or do, advice is what youget from others.
Advise is the verb. Advice is the noun.
I shall advise you to listen to my advice ,'never advise anybody if he/she doesn't ask your advice.'
Advise is an adjective, advice is a noun.
Advice is a noun, advise is a verb.
';I would advise you to listen to others advice';. See the difference? Advise is present tense, and advice is past tense.
They are said differently too, advise is pronounced 'advize', advice is pronounced 'advise' - it's complicated I know!
To advise is to give . Advice is what you are given
Advise is the verb and advice is the noun.
';I need some advice';
';Would you advise me please?';
In England, you advise (verb) by giving advice (noun). Similar instances are practise (verb) and practice (noun), although I think practise serves as both noun and verb in America. Also license and licence, which is why licenced to sell liquor is incorrect.
The phantom thumbs down numskull is about again - sorry two of 'em.
Say, Chew - look up numskull in the dictionary please and you'll find which of us is it.
to advise is a verb, like I could advise you on your love life, advice is the noun, like you could say 'she gave me advice on my love life'.
advise is information given out, the other is information taken in
Advice is something you give.
Advise is something you do
advise: is if someone asked you about a certain brand of something and you told tehm what you thought or if you had read something about it thenyou would 'advise' them of your knowledge of the product
advice: this is something that you give to someone if they need help with something for example if your friend needed to pick her mother up from the hospital at 3 pm but needed to be on a date at 10 minutes past, you could give her advice on how she could plan her time?
or if someone asked you a question adn had their own opinion on the answer they could give you advice about the answer maybe?
Advise is the act of giving someone advice.
I agree with Eddie but......Eddie, shut up mate. The answer you gave should finish at the first line because that's what the questioner wants. (Points off for verbiage) And I didn't give you the thumbs down, it looks like someone else has the same thoughts as I have.
I advise you to take my advice...
You advise someone by giving advice.
Advise - When you give someone advice
Advice - What you give someone ; help you give someone
more related..... Adviser - someone that gives advice or gives it professionally ; i hope you consider ME a good adviser : )
their is no difference
Hair Advice!!! my hairdresser put a whole head tint of bleach and it went multicoloured! please advise me!!?
She said the reason it went orange in places was because the time before i got my hair done it was very uneven! so she then put some brown through the parting and now theres a big panel left at the back and underneath! the thing is i can't put anymore color on it yet cos my hair had to have 4 inches cut off because of the bleach! i still want to be blonde but not have all these tones in it the salmon colour is the worst! my hairdresser says when the brown fades it will look much better but it looks stripey and i just don't know what to do i had to come into work with a hat on! how can i settle it down? please help i just don't know what to do. xxxxHair Advice!!! my hairdresser put a whole head tint of bleach and it went multicoloured! please advise me!!?
Sorry to hear that happened.
I would be going back in there and telling the manager you are most unhappy with your hair, and demanding a different hairdresser fix it for you. Obviously it will not be what you wanted in the first place, but just so you are not so embarrassed you have to wear a hat! Just make them fix it so you are happy to be seen in public.
THEN next time, swap to a new hairdresser.
Lots of luck.Hair Advice!!! my hairdresser put a whole head tint of bleach and it went multicoloured! please advise me!!?
You might have to go darker, i would advise putting a semi-permanent color on it (also called a rinse or cellophane) to conceal the mess. Honestly you need to let the blond idea go for now and go darker so you dont look like a clown until your hair gets healthy again, and grows out and you can start over...this time with a different hairdresser! Go to someone who knows what their doing because honestly it sounds like she didnt.
Its going to look worse when it fades not better.. I have first had experience in this..
My advice, switch hairdressers quick, she shouldn't have burnt your hair so badly to have to have 4 inches cut of in the first place, did she even check on the colour throughout the process..
go to superdrug and get Live XXL blonde and pre lighten it and then colour your hair with your own desired shade.
http://www.superdrug.com/invt/113816
It annoys me when people ask about colouring their hair at home and everyone says go to the hairdresser you will ruin it at home! well I would rather ruin my hair at home than spent 拢40+ getting a 'professional' to wreck it for me!
I would also have told the hairdresser you expect your hair colouring to be free until you get the desired shade if she is going to bugger it up it will cost you a fortune trying to correct that at a hairdressers
oh hunni,
what i did when my hair went pink was to get coloured mouse from boots or superdrug, always go darker, and just put tonnes of it in, it will help conceal the colour for a few days and nourish your hair a little so a colour stripper or another colour can be done in a week or so xxxxxxx
also put lots of conditioner on every nigh, it will make ur hair go very soft and maybe greasy but it will be so much better after ur next dye xx
but i would try coloured mousse xxxx
im not sure what the right answer is but if shes right and if the brown fades and it will look better then use head and shoulders or a realy good anti dandruf to fade, but best thing to do is wait a while and just keep putting in highlights to even it out, you also get sprays that lighten your hair when you apply heat, your hair is gonna be damaged anyway so just get very good hair products and treatments to counteract the damage its the only thing to do, so if you hate the colour and really want to be blonde then you gonna have to bleach again, I had a similar experience and i think the hair dresser blaming your previous hair sesion was very unproffesional because it is her duty as a hair tech to judge the condition of your hair ask good questions and determine what would bring out the best results, it just seems like she was shifting the blame after all she is the one who coloured your hair to look the way it did, it happened to me and i refused to pay and demanded they fix it for free, the lady was so unexperienced that it also turned a salmon pick colour and was like grass i have very thick curly hair so it was impossible to do anything with my hair, so i shaved my head last year and have let it grow back ( flipin slow but getting there) and now i realize that blonde suits me and thats what ill stick to and maintain, how do these celebrities do it so well from blonde to black to blonde to brown and there hair looks great?
Sorry to hear that happened.
I would be going back in there and telling the manager you are most unhappy with your hair, and demanding a different hairdresser fix it for you. Obviously it will not be what you wanted in the first place, but just so you are not so embarrassed you have to wear a hat! Just make them fix it so you are happy to be seen in public.
THEN next time, swap to a new hairdresser.
Lots of luck.Hair Advice!!! my hairdresser put a whole head tint of bleach and it went multicoloured! please advise me!!?
You might have to go darker, i would advise putting a semi-permanent color on it (also called a rinse or cellophane) to conceal the mess. Honestly you need to let the blond idea go for now and go darker so you dont look like a clown until your hair gets healthy again, and grows out and you can start over...this time with a different hairdresser! Go to someone who knows what their doing because honestly it sounds like she didnt.
Its going to look worse when it fades not better.. I have first had experience in this..
My advice, switch hairdressers quick, she shouldn't have burnt your hair so badly to have to have 4 inches cut of in the first place, did she even check on the colour throughout the process..
go to superdrug and get Live XXL blonde and pre lighten it and then colour your hair with your own desired shade.
http://www.superdrug.com/invt/113816
It annoys me when people ask about colouring their hair at home and everyone says go to the hairdresser you will ruin it at home! well I would rather ruin my hair at home than spent 拢40+ getting a 'professional' to wreck it for me!
I would also have told the hairdresser you expect your hair colouring to be free until you get the desired shade if she is going to bugger it up it will cost you a fortune trying to correct that at a hairdressers
oh hunni,
what i did when my hair went pink was to get coloured mouse from boots or superdrug, always go darker, and just put tonnes of it in, it will help conceal the colour for a few days and nourish your hair a little so a colour stripper or another colour can be done in a week or so xxxxxxx
also put lots of conditioner on every nigh, it will make ur hair go very soft and maybe greasy but it will be so much better after ur next dye xx
but i would try coloured mousse xxxx
im not sure what the right answer is but if shes right and if the brown fades and it will look better then use head and shoulders or a realy good anti dandruf to fade, but best thing to do is wait a while and just keep putting in highlights to even it out, you also get sprays that lighten your hair when you apply heat, your hair is gonna be damaged anyway so just get very good hair products and treatments to counteract the damage its the only thing to do, so if you hate the colour and really want to be blonde then you gonna have to bleach again, I had a similar experience and i think the hair dresser blaming your previous hair sesion was very unproffesional because it is her duty as a hair tech to judge the condition of your hair ask good questions and determine what would bring out the best results, it just seems like she was shifting the blame after all she is the one who coloured your hair to look the way it did, it happened to me and i refused to pay and demanded they fix it for free, the lady was so unexperienced that it also turned a salmon pick colour and was like grass i have very thick curly hair so it was impossible to do anything with my hair, so i shaved my head last year and have let it grow back ( flipin slow but getting there) and now i realize that blonde suits me and thats what ill stick to and maintain, how do these celebrities do it so well from blonde to black to blonde to brown and there hair looks great?
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